{"id":2095,"date":"2009-11-23T00:39:28","date_gmt":"2009-11-23T06:39:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/?p=2095"},"modified":"2009-11-23T00:45:26","modified_gmt":"2009-11-23T06:45:26","slug":"nanowrimo-contents-under-pressure-possibly-habit-forming","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/index.php\/2009\/11\/nanowrimo-contents-under-pressure-possibly-habit-forming\/","title":{"rendered":"#NaNoWriMo: Contents Under Pressure, Possibly Habit-forming"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Back on day eight, I mentioned that by getting that far through NaNoWriMo, you&#8217;d already gotten past two of the primary &#8220;I quit&#8221; days in the month: Days 3 and 7.<\/p>\n<p>Today, we&#8217;re past day 21. If you&#8217;ve gotten this far, and you&#8217;re still here, I think you&#8217;re going to do okay. In fact, I think you&#8217;ve probably picked up an unexpected benefit from this month; a habit.<\/p>\n<p>(And no, I don&#8217;t mean the caffeine or chocolate addition. Can&#8217;t help you with those: sorry.)<\/p>\n<p>A number of the classes I teach at my day job have to do with modifying your own behavior (time management, verbal communication, how to not be a pain in the ass for everyone who reads your email or anything else you write, et cetera), so when I talk about what needs to change, I also talk about how to change that habit or, more to the point, how to make the change stick.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1440\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1440\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/04\/sticky.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1440\" title=\"sticky\" src=\"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/04\/sticky-300x229.png\" alt=\"Failure to form this habit will result in the tape-and-body-hair punishment.\" width=\"300\" height=\"229\" srcset=\"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/04\/sticky-300x229.png 300w, http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/04\/sticky.png 688w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1440\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Failure to form this habit will result in the tape-and-body-hair punishment.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Changing a habit is always the hard part, after all, and it&#8217;s why people fail at things like &#8216;keeping the house clean&#8217; or &#8216;saving money&#8217; or &#8216;maintaining a healthy weight.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Usually, this failure stems from one simple thing: none of those goals involve changing just <em><strong>one<\/strong><\/em> habit; they require changing a lot of habits and frankly people aren&#8217;t very good at changing a lot of habits at the same time.  In order to make progress, you need to pick one habit out of the whole mess, and focus on that.<\/p>\n<p>There are, in fact, steps.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>1. Commitment. <\/strong>Commit yourself to a habit change, big time. Make your commitment as public as possible.<\/li>\n<li><strong>2. Practice. <\/strong>Changing habits is a skill, and like any skill it takes practice. Most people suggest challenging yourself to a 30-day Challenge and try to do your new habit every single day for 30 days.<\/li>\n<li><strong>3. Tracking.<\/strong> It\u2019s best if you log your progress every day. This will make a successful habit change much more likely.<\/li>\n<li><strong>4. Rewards.<\/strong> Reward yourself. Do so often, early on \u2014 every day for a week or so, then every three days, then the end of every week, and then at the end.<\/li>\n<li><strong>5. Focus. <\/strong>It\u2019s hard to do more than one or two habits at a time \u2014 you can\u2019t maintain focus &#8212; so just pick one.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Does&#8230; any of this sound familiar?<\/p>\n<p>I want to congratulate you.  Not on winning NaNoWriMo &#8211; that&#8217;ll come &#8211; but on something much more valuable: on building a writing habit.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s pretty awesome, isn&#8217;t it? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Back on day eight, I mentioned that by getting that far through NaNoWriMo, you&#8217;d already gotten past two of the primary &#8220;I quit&#8221; days in the month: Days 3 and 7. Today, we&#8217;re past day 21. If you&#8217;ve gotten this far, and you&#8217;re still here, I think you&#8217;re going to do okay. In fact, I &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/index.php\/2009\/11\/nanowrimo-contents-under-pressure-possibly-habit-forming\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;#NaNoWriMo: Contents Under Pressure, Possibly Habit-forming&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_import_markdown_pro_load_document_selector":0,"_import_markdown_pro_submit_text_textarea":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8,42],"tags":[636],"class_list":["post-2095","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-resources","category-writing","tag-nanowrimo"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2095","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2095"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2095\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2097,"href":"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2095\/revisions\/2097"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2095"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2095"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/doycetesterman.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2095"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}